Kuhlala njalo kudabukisa futhi kudabukisa ukuthola ucingo oludluliselwe kumuntu omthandayo. Ukuphendula kuzohlala kuhluka, kusuka ekushaqekeni, ekuphikeni, ekungakholelwa emuzweni wokuzindla ngokuphelele. Okucishe kuqiniseke ukuthi uzozizwa ukhungathekile ngazo zonke izinto ezidinga ukwenziwa othandekayo wakho manje ngeke esakwazi ukuzenza ngokwazo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi indlela ozizwa ngayo ijwayelekile futhi uvume imizwa yakho.

Ngeshwa, imisebenzi ethile kusamele yenzeke. Ukuze sikusize ubhekane naleyo misebenzi; silungiselele uhlu olucacisayo lwalokho okufanele ukwenze: Ungabuka ividiyo ngemizuzu emi-3 noma ufunde okuthunyelwe uma unesikhathi esithe xaxa.

I-Pickup & Ukulungiselela:

Ukuthi othandekayo wakho usesibhedlela, ekhaya noma esibhedlela, kuzodingeka ukuthi athathwe bese izinsalela zabo zilungiselelwe ukungcwatshwa noma ukushiswa kwezidumbu. Uma othandekayo wakho engumnikeli wesitho, kuzodingeka ufundise isibhedlela ngalokhu ngokushesha ukuze balandele imiyalo efanelekile yokunikela ngaphambi kokuba othandekayo wakho athathwe.

Ukuthola isitifiketi sokufa:

Isibhedlela, isibhedlela noma udokotela ofundayo kudingeka akhiphe “Isaziso Sokufa” (BI1663). Lokhu kukhishwa ngaphambi kwesitifiketi sokufa. Uzodinga lokhu kuwo wonke amafomu ukuphatha ozogcwalisela uhulumeni, ukuthola umshuwalense womngcwabo kanye nezicelo zomshuwalense wokuphila uma othandekayo wakho embozwe. Uma uphatha umngcwabo noSendoff, sizobhekelela ukuthi isitifiketi sikhishwe.

Eminye imibhalo ebalulekile:

Uzodinga ukuqoqa umazisi wakho owuthandayo. ENingizimu Afrika yi “Green ID Book noma i-Smart ID Card.”

Kufanele uthole ukuthi othandekayo wakho wayenentando futhi uma kunjalo, wazise lowo ophethe (uma ungabizwa ngegama lokuthi ungumphathi) ngefa labo lokudlula kwabo.

Ikhophi yenqubomgomo yomngcwabo noma yomshuwalense wokuphila nayo iyadingeka ukuze unqume ukuthi izindleko zomngcwabo zimboziwe.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, hlola ukuthi othandekayo wakho ulungiselele imiyalo ekhethekile ephathelene nokudlula kwabo.

Izaziso zomndeni:

Uzodinga ukwazisa okungenani umndeni wakubo othandekayo wakho. Bafanelwe ukwazi ukuthi kwenzekeni futhi imvamisa, imindeni iyasekelana futhi inqume ngokuhlanganyela ukuthi yini okufanele yenziwe ukuze ifinyelele kulesi sikhathi esinzima. Lesi futhi isikhathi sokwazisa i-Imam yakho, uMpristi noma uRabi uma benayo.

Izinqumo Zokuqala:

Uma kungekho imiyalo ekhethekile noma izidingo zenkolo, kuzodingeka wenze izinqumo egameni lomuntu omthandayo:

• Ngabe babefuna umngcwabo noma isidumbu?
• Ingabe othandekayo wakho ungumnikeli wesitho? Uma kunjalo, kuzodingeka ulandele imiyalo yokunikela.
• Ngabe othandekayo wakho wayefuna insizakalo yenkolo noma engeyona eyehlelo?
• Uzodinga ukukhetha amathuna bese uhlela ithuna.
• Uzodinga ukukhetha ibhokisi lomngcwabo noma ibhokisi.
• Uma othandekayo wakho eshiswa, kuzodingeka ukhethe i-urn.
• Uzodinga ukunquma ngemininingwane yensizakalo, ukuthi uzoba nayiphi ifomethi? Ngubani ozoletha i-Eulogy?

Imisebenzi yokuqala:

• Izilwane ezifuywayo noma abondlayo kudingeka zinakekelwe futhi ekugcineni ziphinde zenziwe kabusha.
• Ikhaya (noma) labathandekayo bakho kanye nezimoto kufanele zikhiywe futhi zivikelwe.
• Umqashi wakho othandekayo kanye nozakwabo osebenza nabo kufanele baziswe ukuthi badlulile.
• Abakweletwayo bakho obathandayo kufanele baziswe ngokudlula kwabo kanye nobufakazi obunikezwe.

Imisebenzi Yomngcwabo:

• Hlela umngcwabo noma ukushiswa ekhaya lomngcwabo.
• Khetha ibhokisi lomngcwabo noma ibhokisi.
• Incwadi ISonto / Mosque / Shul yenkonzo.
• Hlela izinto zokuhamba zothandekayo wakho nezihlobo zakho.
• Phetha imihlahlandlela ethile yenkolo.
• Amathuna encwadi namathuna.
• Khetha isembatho somuntu omthandayo.
• Thumela izimemo.
• Khipha indawo emaphephandabeni afanele.

Izinto Okumele Zenziwe Ngemva Komngcwabo:

Ungafuna ukubheka izinketho zokwelulekwa ngokufelwa.

Inothi lokubonga kubo bonke abasizile.

Uma othandekayo wakho eshisiwe, kuzodingeka unqume ukuthi wenzeni ngomlotha wabo.

Ukukhansela noma yiziphi izinqubomgomo, amathuluzi wezezimali noma izinkontileka eziphethwe othandekayo wakho.

Kufanele ukhansele noma yimaphi ama-akhawunti kahulumeni noma amadokhumenti asaphethwe njengamanani nentela, ilayisense lokushayela njll.

Dala ifayela lamadokhumenti eliphethe yonke imibhalo, ama-invoice, izaziso zokukhanselwa kwenkontileka kanye nezikweletu ezihlobene nomngcwabo nomuntu omthandayo.

Bukela le vidiyo ukuze uthole izinyathelo ezibalulekile okufanele uzithathe. Thola ukuqonda okugcwele futhi ulungiselele kahle!

Faka isaziso sokufa ne-Master of the High Court (RSA).